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It's the start of the year and you've probably been bombarded with promotional messages on how to transform your body, make money while you sleep or make 2021 your best year yet. I don't know about you, but the global pandemic of 2020 has made me audit what's important, what deserves my attention.<\/p>\n

So let me ask you something I asked myself and my clients:<\/span><\/p>\n

Do you think you can both love yourself and want to change? <\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Shouldn't you love yourself unconditionally?<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

The answer to both of these questions is: YES!<\/span><\/p>\n

Think of it this way, it's a little bit like a home. We're grateful it provides us with a roof over our head, but it's much more than that. It's our safe space. It's HOME.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sometimes we love to leave things how they are. Other times, we crave change. It could be as simple as painting a wall a different colour, or completely redecorating, or even restructuring to match your current needs. <\/span><\/p>\n

Wanting change for ourselves works the same way. The only thing to remember is that whatever change we are working on is NOT an attempt to people-please, to be loved or fit in.<\/span><\/p>\n

And I would know about wanting change for the wrong reasons... It's something I struggled with for over a decade! <\/span><\/p>\n

And that's why this topic is close to my heart<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you are experiencing a lot of self-doubt in your personal or professional life these days, I would love for you to join me in my <\/span>LIVE Masterclass<\/span><\/a> this Thursday 28th January 2021.<\/span><\/p>\n

Click on <\/span>the link<\/span><\/a> or image to register ????<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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